![Resist? It’s much easier to let go! [Really it is.]](https://youcanchoose.info/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/dogpatio.jpg)
by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Dec 4, 2018 | Experiences, Observations, Peter&Beth
The other day I was trying to explain to my dog how pointless it is to resist. We just came home from a walk, and he was anxious to get off the leash. He wanted to head back outside to see what was going on in the backyard. As I reached out to unhook the leash, he...
by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Nov 27, 2018 | Observations, Peter&Beth
What’s with all this gratitude and appreciation? I know when life sucks, the last thing I want to do is be thankful for the suckiness. When I lived with depression, I wallowed in despair. If someone came up to me with a bright smile and told me to change my attitude...
by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Nov 20, 2018 | Observations, Peter&Beth
As most people know now the smoke from the California fires has settled into the Bay Area for nearly a week now. It’s the worst air quality we’ve ever had in this area. What makes it doubly challenging for people who live here and enjoy the outdoors every day is we...
![Bye Bye My Sweet Porsche – [How to Know When You’re Due for a Change]](https://youcanchoose.info/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Boxster.jpg)
by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Nov 6, 2018 | Experiences, Observations, Peter&Beth
Recently I got a call from Tony, the calm mechanic who works on my Porsche. He said my Boxster is broken. The engine failed, and it is worth nothing more than scrap metal. What???? What the heck does engine failure mean? We just had it serviced last summer! He started...
by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Oct 23, 2018 | Experiences, From the YCC book, Peter&Beth
The phrase, Your Thoughts Matter and You Can Choose Your Thoughts, is core to the You Can Choose framework. We learned our thoughts matter after spending much of our lives thinking without realizing their power. Little did we know that each judgment, worry, and...
by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Oct 15, 2018 | Experiences, Observations, Peter&Beth
I’m beginning to build a better relationship between myself and society. A relationship can be a good thing or a bad thing. It really depends on you. I think of having a relationship with a society like having a relationship with a person. It can be healthy, toxic, or...
