by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Jul 21, 2020 | From the YCC book
What Are You Asking For? When you say you want some ‘thing,’ it is much more than the ‘thing. Say you want a new car. It’s not just the new car you want. It’s the feeling of getting a new car and driving along your favorite road. It’s the joy of talking about your new...
by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Jul 14, 2020 | From the YCC book
Ask What It Means, Not Why When something happens to us, our first reaction usually is to ask, “Why me?” Why did that guy just cut me off? Why did I miss the meeting? Why is it so busy here? We wonder why things happen to us. A better question to ask is, “What does...
by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Jul 7, 2020 | From the YCC book
You Create the Crisis One of our biggest challenges in life is learning not to react to a confrontation. We see or hear something, and we often react automatically. We are taught to confront an issue head-on. It sounds simple, but the best way out of a situation is...
