by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Oct 9, 2010 | ycc
It Is Fair We all hear or maybe even say, “That’s not fair.” What does it mean to be fair? Does it mean the ‘good guy’ wins? Does it mean no one cuts in front of you while you’re waiting in line? When we think of fairness, we usually...
by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Oct 8, 2010 | ycc
Empathy Is Enabling When someone is complaining, they are putting their focus on the things they don’t want. Your empathy for another person’s complaints creates a reinforcing cycle, which helps keep the person’s energy and focus on the very things they...
by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Oct 7, 2010 | ycc
Helping Others It is not your job to help others. No one needs your help. Like you, they have access to all the power of the Universe, and like you, they are here in this physical world for specific experiences. They are working through their challenges just like you....
by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Oct 6, 2010 | ycc
There Are No Coincidences When unlikely events occur, we call them lucky (or unlucky). We shake our head at the highly unlikely occurrence or the freak accident, even though so many things had to happen for the event to occur. There are no coincidences. Life is not...
by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Oct 5, 2010 | ycc
Problems or Challenges? You can’t run away from problems. Without internal changes, the external problems will follow you wherever and whatever you do. You might not like to hear it, but you set up the problems specifically to work through. In fact, you might...