by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Oct 20, 2010 | ycc
Fill Up the Space We fill up our lives. If we wish our lives to be larger, we need to imagine ourselves large enough to fill up the larger space. We are not talking about physical space, but about how we view ourselves. In our current circumstances, we’ve...
by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Oct 19, 2010 | ycc
We Get in Our Own Way Sometimes, life seems hard. We find ourselves struggling to make it through the day. The Universe doesn’t want us to struggle, and we don’t want to struggle, so why do we? It’s because we get in our own way. We’ve been conditioned to expect...
by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Oct 18, 2010 | ycc
Fail in Order to Allow Sometimes, we have to fail before we can succeed. When we feel like we’ve failed, sometimes we let go of the drive, the push, the need to arrive at a specific outcome in a way we’ve often predetermined. By letting go, we can finally open...
by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Oct 17, 2010 | ycc
You Create the Crisis One of our biggest challenges in life is learning not to react to a confrontation. We see or hear something, and we often react automatically. We are taught to confront an issue head-on. It sounds simple, but the best way out of a situation is...
by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Oct 16, 2010 | ycc
Ask What It Means, Not Why When something happens to us, our first reaction usually is to ask, “Why me?” Why did that guy just cut me off? Why did I miss the meeting? Why is it so busy here? We wonder why things happen to us. A better question to ask is,...