by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Jul 21, 2020 | From the YCC book
What Are You Asking For? When you say you want some ‘thing,’ it is much more than the ‘thing. Say you want a new car. It’s not just the new car you want. It’s the feeling of getting a new car and driving along your favorite road. It’s the joy of talking about your new...
by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Jul 14, 2020 | From the YCC book
Ask What It Means, Not Why When something happens to us, our first reaction usually is to ask, “Why me?” Why did that guy just cut me off? Why did I miss the meeting? Why is it so busy here? We wonder why things happen to us. A better question to ask is, “What does...
by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Jul 7, 2020 | From the YCC book
You Create the Crisis One of our biggest challenges in life is learning not to react to a confrontation. We see or hear something, and we often react automatically. We are taught to confront an issue head-on. It sounds simple, but the best way out of a situation is...
by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Oct 23, 2018 | Experiences, From the YCC book, Peter and Beth
The phrase, Your Thoughts Matter and You Can Choose Your Thoughts, is core to the You Can Choose framework. We learned our thoughts matter after spending much of our lives thinking without realizing their power. Little did we know that each judgment, worry, and...
by Peter and Beth Bostwick | Jul 10, 2018 | From the YCC book, Peter and Beth, Workshop
One of the most fundamental concepts we believe in is the power of our beliefs. Beliefs influence everything in our lives, from how we interpret people and events to our ability to manipulate the world. Our set of beliefs is like a handbook. Google’s definition...
by Beth Bostwick | Apr 9, 2018 | Beth's Voice, Experiences, From the YCC book, Observations
Ever have a day when everything seems to go wrong? Whatever you try, just doesn’t seem to work out no matter how much effort you put in? In fact, the more you work at it, the worse things become!! Days like that are precisely when you need to step back and let go....
